Why does everyone want to play the victim when everyone makes mistakes?

“You are not a product of circumstances. You are a product of your decisions. Many people tend to blame their circumstances when they fail or become stuck in life. Instead of confronting the problem, they choose to ignore it and seek excuses for their mistakes, which may temporarily alleviate their discomfort. This reminds me of a line from the famous Vietnamese movie ‘Nha ba Nu,’ which asks, ‘Why does everyone want to play the victim when everyone makes mistakes?’

We often hope that circumstances will change to accommodate us, but this rarely comes true. We must adapt and keep up with the changes. If something needs to change, you should take the initiative. What happens to you tomorrow is determined by your decision today.

To enhance the effectiveness of your decision-making, it’s important to identify what you can control and do not waste time on trivial matters. For example, the weather today or others’ opinions. Such concerns only serve as distractions, consuming your time and diverting your attention from your goals. I understand that this is easier said than done. Transforming yourself into a new version can be challenging. It’s common to feel scared or lost in thought when you can’t envision your future in the next five years. However, don’t worry. You can start small by developing beneficial habits like reading, exercising, or maintaining a consistent sleep schedule. You don’t need to become the greatest person; you just need to be better than you were yesterday.

In conclusion, you are not defined by your circumstances. Today’s actions will influence tomorrow’s outcomes, and you have the power to create them. As you change, the world around you changes too.”

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